农村家庭，普通家境。毕业后在国企、互联网公司工作，2010 年在北方某省进入现职业，2017 年来到深圳。车辆为宝马三系，住房现为公租房，计划两三年内购买安居房

感情经历相对简单。上学期间有过两段经历，毕业后忙于工作，加之其他因素，较长时间单身。其中，2019年约半年，2021年约半年，2023年至2026年约三年。

人生经历奋进，社会关系简单，生活方式纯粹，精神面貌良好。自诩为读书人、写字的，具现代健康价值，富逻辑思维，尚多维意识，致力于自在从容、真实可触摸的生活状态。

性格直率，为人真诚，少有并不屑于说假话。被朋友称之为「有故事的人」——先后在西北、东南、华南工作，经历国企文员、IT 公司编辑，行政机构建设与管理、新闻媒体、区域经济、对外交往、综合文员等岗位。

独立意识较强，个人工作、生活、感情等事情，几乎从不或很少受外界过多干预。个人情感及婚后生活，不会来自家庭及其他外界的消极影响。

尊崇理性、建设性，遇事沉稳，做事干练，不拖泥带水。富责任心和担当性，善着眼于未来及遵照内心看待事务。

I grew up in a modest rural family in Shaanxi. After university, I worked at a state-owned enterprise and an internet company before entering public service in 2010. In 2017, I was selected for a position in Shenzhen, where I've lived ever since.

My relationship history is straightforward — two relationships during university, and a long single stretch afterward as I focused on career and personal growth. My most recent relationship was in early 2020.

I consider myself a reader and a writer at heart. I value logic, independent thinking, and a grounded, authentic approach to life. Friends describe me as someone with stories to tell — I've lived and worked across northwest, southeast, and southern China, in roles spanning administration, policy, communications, regional economics, and foreign affairs.

I'm fiercely independent. My life choices — career, location, relationships — have always been my own. My future marriage will be protected from external interference; this is something I take seriously.

I'm rational, constructive, and calm under pressure. I don't waste words, and I follow through on commitments.

发表文章千余篇，获得表彰或感谢二十多次。2008 年、2012 年地震救灾捐款一个月工资、捐款 100 元，2020 年抗击疫情捐赠 N95 口罩 120 个、赠送一次性口罩数千个、捐款 100 元，参与抢险 3 次，2023 年捐赠某中学约 400 本书、帮扶困难家庭 1500 元。

Published nearly 1,000 articles in national, provincial, and municipal outlets; received 15 official commendations and 4 letters of appreciation. Donated a full month's salary to earthquake relief (2008), contributed N95 masks and funds during COVID-19 (2020), participated in 3 fire rescues, and donated ~400 books to a secondary school (2023).

藏书千余册，涉猎社科、财经、IT、AI、心理、文化、哲学等领域。
喜欢的学者：黄仁宇、李泽厚、钱穆等。
喜欢的书：《乌合之众》《宽容》《通往奴役之路》《异端的权利》《亲密关系》《旧制度与大革命》《自私的基因》《枪炮、病菌与钢铁》《进化心理学》等，以及商务印书馆「汉译世界学术名著丛书」。

I own over 1,000 books spanning social science, economics, technology, AI,psychology, culture, and philosophy. Favorite thinkers include Ray Huang, Li Zehou, and Qian Mu. Favorite reads: The Crowd (Le Bon), The Road to Serfdom (Hayek), The Selfish Gene (Dawkins), Guns, Germs, and Steel (Diamond), The Old Regime and the Revolution (Tocqueville), Intimate Relationships (Miller), and Evolutionary Psychology (Buss).

IMDb 250 及豆瓣 250 几乎全看过，豆瓣标记看过电影超千部。
喜欢的导演：伍迪·艾伦、希区柯克、库布里克、费里尼、昆汀、侯孝贤、杨德昌、贾樟柯、姜文。
喜欢的电影：《2001 太空漫游》《曼哈顿》《机器人总动员》《无耻混蛋》《牯岭街少年杀人事件》等。
喜欢的美剧：《权力的游戏》《火线》《西部世界》《后翼弃兵》《浩瀚苍穹》《生活大爆炸》《真相捕捉》《流人》。

I've watched nearly every film on the IMDb 250 and Douban 250 lists — over 1,000 films logged. Favorite directors: Woody Allen, Hitchcock, Kubrick, Fellini, Tarantino, Hou Hsiao-hsien, Edward Yang, Jia Zhangke, Jiang Wen. Favorite films: 2001: A Space Odyssey, Manhattan, WALL·E, Inglourious Basterds, A Brighter Summer Day. Favorite TV series: The Wire, Westworld, The Queen's Gambit, The Expanse, The Big Bang Theory.

羽毛球是近年的主场——休息时间几乎每天都在打球，每周约四五次。也喜欢台球、篮球、自驾、登山、旅游。2018 年跳跃澳门塔，2020-2022 年四次单人自驾深圳往返北方老家（单程约 2000 公里），2022 年春节穿越东西冲海岸线。

Badminton is my main sport — I play 4-5 times a week. I also enjoy billiards, basketball, road trips, hiking, and travel. Highlights: bungee-jumped off Macau Tower (2018), drove solo from Shenzhen to North home and back four times (~2,000 km each way), hiked the Dongxichong coastal trail (2022).

注重生活品质，爱好整洁，善于整理。馒头、饺子、花卷、面条、麻食、包子、凉皮、烙饼等老家面食基本全部纯手工操作。动手能力强——维修电脑、房子批腻子刷涂料、墙壁打孔安装、洗车、安装家具、更换车辆滤芯，不在话下。买车六年多，差不多每两周自己洗一次车，间或自己打蜡、镀膜。

I'm particular about quality of life — I keep things clean, organized, and well-maintained. I make traditional Shaanxi noodles, dumplings, steamed buns, and flatbreads entirely from scratch. I handle my own computer repairs, wall painting, drilling, furniture assembly, and car maintenance. I hand-wash my car every two weeks and occasionally detail it myself.

刻意远离手机。走路、吃饭、有朋友在几乎从不看手机。目前手机仅 24 款 APP（大多为工具类），微信群 12 个（大多为工作群），微信公众号 30 个。不玩游戏，不刷抖音，不看头条，不翻微博。

I deliberately keep distance from my phone. I never check it while walking, eating, or with friends. I have only 24 apps (mostly tools), 12 WeChat groups (mostly work), and 30 followed accounts. No games, no TikTok, no mindless scrolling.

首先，不关注地域、民族、户籍、家庭、生肖、星座、财富、宗教信仰等。职业、收入等不限。

如果可以：希望你的年龄与我相仿或小一些，身高 150 至 175 cm，学历高中及以上。

期待你：热爱生活，简单纯粹，从容得体，易于相处，富有生命活力和良好的精神状态。

说明：以上皆为参考。人的维度是那样多元，每个人都是第一次来到这个世界，没有什么答案是既定的。

I don't filter by nationality, ethnicity, household registration, family background, zodiac sign, astrology, wealth, or religion. Your occupation and income don't matter to me.

If I had to describe an ideal: around my age or younger, height 150-175 cm, high school education or above.

What I truly value: someone who loves life, is genuine and uncomplicated, carries herself with grace, is easy to be around, and has vitality and a positive spirit.

These are reference points, not requirements. People are multidimensional. None of us comes with a manual.